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Leading Greats #63
Overwhelm | Response | Attitude | Growth > 100k followers
Ronnie Kinsey
June 02, 2024
It's easy to get Overwhelmed by external factors we Can't Control
However, focusing on what we can control is where authentic leadership shines.
Here are three critical areas within our control, applicable to both our careers and home life:
1. Our Response:
We can't control every event or circumstance, but we can control how we respond.
Reacting with composure, empathy, and decisiveness can turn challenges into opportunities.
Remember, it's not the situation but our reaction that defines the outcome.
As Viktor Frankl, renowned psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor, famously said:
"Between stimulus and response, there is a space.
In that space, it is our power to choose our response."
2. Our Attitude:
Maintaining a positive, solution-oriented mindset is crucial.
An optimistic attitude not only boosts your resilience but also inspires those around you.
When faced with setbacks, view them as learning opportunities and steer your team or family toward growth.
Carol Dweck, a leading researcher in psychology, highlights the importance of a growth mindset in fostering resilience and continuous improvement.
3. Our Effort:
Consistency in effort separates successful individuals from the rest.
Dedication to continuous improvement, showing up every day with determination, and leading by example are entirely within our control.
Your effort sets the standard for your team and family.
Renowned leadership expert John C. Maxwell emphasizes that effort and persistence are key traits of influential leaders.
Resetting When Things Are Out of Control
When situations, people, or circumstances suddenly emerge as out of our control, it's essential to reset and regain our balance.
Here's a five-step offering to help you navigate these moments effectively:
1. Pause and Breathe:
Take a moment to stop and breathe deeply. This simple act can help calm your mind and body, allowing you to think more clearly—practice mindfulness techniques to regain your composure.
2. Assess the Situation:
Evaluate what is out of your control and identify the aspects that you can influence. This helps you focus your energy on areas where you can make a difference rather than stressing over what you cannot change.
3. Adjust Your Perspective:
Shift your mindset from a problem-focused to a solution-oriented approach. Ask yourself, "What can I learn from this?" and "How can I move forward?" Adopting a growth mindset, as Carol Dweck suggests, can turn obstacles into opportunities.
4. Take Constructive Action:
Formulate a plan to address the situation. Break it down into manageable steps and start with what you can do immediately. By taking proactive steps, no matter how small, you regain a sense of control and direction.
5. Seek Support:
Don't hesitate to reach out to colleagues, mentors, or family members for Support and advice. Sharing your challenges can provide new perspectives and solutions that you might have yet to consider. Building a support network is crucial in both personal and professional life.
Emphasizing these controllable aspects not only enhances your effectiveness but also empowers your team and family to thrive in any situation.
Remember, leadership is not just about managing others but also about managing ourselves effectively.
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