Leading Greats #46

Conflict | Listening | Wisely Spoken Words | Leading Greatly

Leading Greats #46 is dedicated to:

Navigating Conflict and Fostering Resolutions

Unraveling the Threads of Team Disputes

Conflict in teams is as inevitable as change itself.

It often stems from differences in perspectives, priorities, and personalities.

A notable example is the clash between innovation and tradition, reminiscent of the tension at Apple Inc. in the early 2000s.

Steve Jobs' relentless push for innovation often conflicted with the company's established norms, yet it was this very tension that propelled Apple to new heights.

The Art of Active Listening

Effective resolution begins with active listening.

It's not merely about hearing words but understanding the emotions and motivations behind them.

Consider the approach of Nelson Mandela, who, even in prison, listened to his captors and understood their viewpoints.

This powerful tool helped him to negotiate an end to apartheid in South Africa.

Creating a Culture of Open Communication

Open communication is the bedrock of conflict resolution.

Google's Project Aristotle, a study on team effectiveness, highlighted psychological safety as a critical ingredient for high-performing teams.

Creating an environment where team members feel safe to express themselves without fear of retribution begins with self-awareness.

Embracing Diverse Perspectives

Diversity in teams can lead to conflicts due to differing viewpoints.

Yet, it's this diversity that often drives innovation.

IBM's turnaround in the 1990s under CEO Lou Gerstner was partly due to his emphasis on harnessing diverse perspectives to innovate and adapt in a rapidly changing technology landscape.

Conflict Resolution Techniques

  • Identify the Root Cause: Get to the heart of the conflict.

  • Encourage Empathy: Encouraging team members to see the situation from others' perspectives can open pathways to understanding.

  • Find Common Ground: As seen in the historic Good Friday Agreement, finding commonality can be a decisive step towards resolution.

  • Develop Actionable Solutions: Solutions should be clear, actionable, and agreed upon by all parties, similar to the approach Satya Nadella took in revitalizing Microsoft's culture.

As Jeff Bezos advocates, "Be stubborn on the vision, flexible on the details."

The Leader's Role: A Beacon in the Storm

Leaders should be the calm in the conflict storm, guiding their teams through turbulent times.

This doesn't mean dictating solutions but facilitating a process where solutions emerge organically from the team.

It's about balancing empathy with decisiveness, as demonstrated by Angela Merkel during her tenure as Chancellor of Germany.

Conflict, while challenging, is a catalyst for growth and innovation

Embracing it, understanding it, and resolving it can lead teams to discover new horizons of performance and collaboration.

Remember, it's not the absence of conflict that makes a great team but the ability to navigate it constructively.

Choose your words wisely to avoid and navigate conflict successfully if it occurs.

As a guide I offer my cheat sheet on Words Leaders Say to Build a Strong Team:

 

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